I wanted to thank everyone for the help you have given me and the ideas.  It is really helpful and really helps expand and evaluate my own thinking.  I guess I'm getting into this reflection.  We do it but often not in writing and it does help to see things more clearly.  I think the truth is I've enjoyed this class because of it.  But I also know that I have had time to think and that is the important thing after all to make time.  :)